Ok so I used to drink and experimented with a few substances but have naturally sort of stopped for my own reasons. Feeling completely alone in my choices however I complained to a friend about how I hated the fact everyone needed to "have fun" by doing these things and he pointed me in the direction of sxe on wikipedia and I went from there in looking up on it. However, I wanted some clarification on a couple of points. Are you still considered sxe if you are a) on the pill, and b) only have sex in relationships?

Also, I have just started my second year at uni in London and am struggling to find people who don't do drugs and drink copious amounts of alcohol. Can anyone help with finding like minded people?
Thanks x