I’m 23, and my current girlfriend has kind of introduced me to the idea of straightedge (although she, herself isn’t), and I am interested to know more. I drink quite a bit but am getting fed up with feeling the need that every time I go out I have to get drunk (the person who said you hide behind the drink – its very true). I’m currently in the process of quit smoking because I hate the fact that I’m polluting my body with the smoke. I’ve read a couple of websites and got various information about being straightedge and what it’s all about and like a lot of the ideas on what straightedge seems to be about but I’m hoping that someone can clarify a few points for me :o)

I’m aware that I can’t drink, smoke, do drugs or have promiscuous sex.

Please be kind :o)

1. Can I be a lesbian and still be straightedge?
2. Do I have to be a vegetarian or vegan?
3. Can I drink tea?
4. I listen to a lot of different music does it matter if not a lot of its hardcore punk?
5. Can I still take medicine if I have a headache or anything similar?

I’d be interested to talk to other straightedge’s to hear their views and ideas :o)